Sex is an amazing thing! Sex can be used for spiritual growth if used right. It is also one of the chief motivators of humanity. I want to give you a glimpse of what I have learned about sex over the years, and it is TOTALLY different than what I thought or was taught.
Here is a really thrown together video of how Sex can be seen as a continuous catalyst for growth and a source of connection with your partner. If you ever feel that you and your partner are “hot and cold” at times, then this will explain what is going on and how to side-step this natural occurrence. This is a simple video, but the theory is sound. It takes time for this to show the effects though. One odd way you might notice things changing is that after about three weeks of practice food will taste better, more complex and rich. It is your brain chemistry adjusting that allows more pleasure in everyday life. Also there is a more “giving” attitude that flows from you as you are not depleted and feeling the need to fill in the gaps with other things. When you are not “hungry” you are more able to give to others; be that time, energy or love.
I see sexual energy as the SOURCE of enthusiasm. When you are full of enthusiasm, you feel powerful, and alive; and that power and aliveness comes from being present and willing to give of ourselves as the moment needs.
Life has an odd way of giving us what we want in weird ways. Sex without orgasm is better, and it makes life better and more interesting. I hope you find it makes you more “you” and gives you the joy in your relationship that “hot sex” in theory gives, but does not in the long run.
Please email me if you have any questions or comments at firstname.lastname@example.org .
I hope you all find the Freedom you never lost,